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Despite greater cultural awareness about the prevalence of sexual assault in recent years, many victims are reluctant to talk about what happened to them.<\/p>\n

Not only do a large percentage of rapes go unreported to authorities, nearly a third of victims, according to one analysis, don\u2019t share their experiences with anyone, not even a close friend or family member. A new study by two University of Maine researchers looks at the reasons why this hard-to-reach population decides to stay quiet.<\/p>\n

Sandra Caron, a professor of family relations and human sexuality, and Deborah Mitchell, a retired 91르적 police sergeant, interviewed 15 college women ages 19\u201324 about the reasons why they didn\u2019t share details of being sexually assaulted with anyone. The study, published in the journal Violence Against Women<\/a>, offers insights for individuals and institutions to support victims, as well as to develop programs that embolden survivors to discuss their experiences.<\/p>\n

\u201cThese women are difficult to identify, and no previous studies have been published on this group of sexual assault survivors,\u201d Caron and Mitchell write. \u201cTheir silence persists despite current efforts by the #MeToo movement, as well as decades of work by sexual assault organizations to destigmatize rape and encourage women to not only tell someone but also to report their assault to authorities.\u201d<\/p>\n

The women agreed to share their stories for the first time with the researchers, who identified common themes in the reasons given for not sharing the experiences previously. Caron, a licensed therapist, and Mitchell, a former police investigator, assigned each of the interviewees a pseudonym, and took other steps to protect their identities. The researchers also provided information about sexual assault and rape response services.<\/p>\n

The two most common reasons given for not telling anyone about being assaulted were internal blame, shame and guilt, and external blame and\/or fear of humiliation.<\/p>\n

\u201cI felt it was my fault and I asked for it by being flirtatious and wearing a short dress,\u201d one participant told the researchers.<\/p>\n

\u201cI think by staying silent I spared myself all the pain and humiliation that would have come from others,\u201d said another.<\/p>\n

Other reasons included wanting to pretend it never happened, fear of losing control of the situation, fear of not being believed, concern about getting in trouble, not wanting to be stigmatized or labeled, not wanting to get others in trouble, fear of losing someone, and fear of being hurt or for their safety.<\/p>\n

\u201cI feared on some level there would be retaliation \u2014 that I would suffer the consequences if I spoke out and reported this or told anyone,\u201d a third participant said.<\/p>\n

Nearly all the women said they would have told someone under the right circumstances, and more than half said another person\u2019s initial response made them decide to keep silent. One participant considered telling some of her sorority sisters, but was afraid she would not be believed.<\/p>\n

\u201cWe had recently had an educational program and the speaker talked about sexual assault and many of the girls rolled their eyes and talked about all those girls who falsely accuse guys,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n

\u201cI considered telling my mom at one point. She would have been devastated and might have made me come home and quit college,\u201d reported another.<\/p>\n

Caron and Mitchell say their findings parallel previous research on why victims of sexual assault opt not to report their attacks to authorities \u2014 self-blame or fear of others blaming them, as well as fear of not being believed, getting in trouble, or being stigmatized. Two of the reasons \u2014 wanting to pretend it never happened and fear of losing control of the situation \u2014 have not been reported in previous research. Overall, the researchers note that victims have many complex and interlocking reasons for not telling anyone about an assault, not one major reason.<\/p>\n

\u201cIt was evident they put a great amount of thought into whether or not to tell anyone; they weighed the consequences and chose to stay silent,\u201d Caron and Mitchell write.<\/p>\n

Although there\u2019s been progress in recent years in terms of awareness and tolerance of sexual assault on college campuses and beyond, Caron and Mitchell say the results of their study provide evidence of the need for more resources and education. In particular, they point to the persistent belief by victims that they will be blamed and that their attackers will not be held accountable as reasons to involve more men in efforts to prevent sexual assault.<\/p>\n

\u201cInstitutions of higher education need to provide ways to educate young men about their roles and responsibilities to ensure safe and respectful behavior toward others,\u201d they write.<\/p>\n

They also highlight the need for colleges and universities to find ways to encourage women to speak about their experiences and, in the process, find support. More than half the women interviewed for the study said sharing their stories with the researchers had been helpful and healing.<\/p>\n

\u201cBy saying it out loud, it released the shame I have carried for so long \u2026 a shame that I never should have owned to begin with,\u201d said one woman.<\/p>\n

Contact: Casey Kelly, casey.kelly@maine.edu<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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